Someone’s waiting…

Someone’s waiting...

Someone is waiting for you to come to them, and to love them. Probably right now. In our “Love will teach you what to do” post, I quoted Carlo Carretto who said, “Don’t worry about what you ought to do. Worry about loving!” Carretto argues that extravagant...
Ask me!

Ask me!...

Recall the exciting energy and the sometimes breathless and heart-pounding repartee of your first conversations with your spouse! Is it the same for you folk today?  This afternoon?  This evening?  No?  What’s happened?  (creeping separateness?) You do remember don’t...
Inquiring minds…

Inquiring minds…...

A Private Affair is a game of inquiry. Sometimes direct and sometimes leading questions and suggestions to explore the deeper bits and pieces of ourselves and our relationship. So personal is the inquiry that it is of course, a very “private affair!”  This is why we...
Kiss, Don’t Tell!

Kiss, Don’t Tell!...

In our recent post “Show Me!” we noted that at times words get in the way of good loving and peaceful and happy relationship.  “Don’t tell me that you’re loving me! Show me!” Last year Confetti.co.uk, a wedding planning website asked 3,000 adults...
More Oral!

More Oral!...

Has anyone “done you” lately? Really ravished you orally, letting their tongue send shivers of raw pleasure and exquisite delight through your hungry frame? How long HAS it been since you last really enjoyed yourselves together orally? Has anyone REALLY “done you”...
A safe place to be dangerous

A safe place to be dang...

A marriage (should you be in one at the moment) can be a very safe place to be dangerous. It seems however, that this is an option many couples seldom exercise.  We’re… just too busy, etc. We’ve written elsewhere in this site about the “creeping separateness”...

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